1. Income because you need it.
Getting a job is excellent idea and yes you may be trading your time for money but you need money, right. Yes you may not be generating income 24/7 but you are generating income! It is unbelievable that some people out there say that getting a job is dumb. Yes I have already heard you only get paid when you’re working. I don’t see a problem or think that people have been thoroughly brainwashed when comes to thinking that a job to earn income is the right choice. Yes how ever I do think life would be much easier if you were in a situation or already have created one that allows for you to be paid while you were eating, sleeping and carrying on with all life has to offer. This is just not case for the majority of us out there in this hard world is it?

So people may have you believe that smart people build income systems that generate money 24/7, so I say what this makes the majority stupid. Yes there are systems out there that can generate money such as a website or becoming an investor. Say that you choose one of these paths say the website how exactly are you going to feed your family pay your bills etc when this so called money making website is not generating money when it starts or say for that matter what if it does not generate money for years, do you starve or of course while I’m thinking about it where is the money coming from for the internet connection?

I will use this blog site as an example of why you definitely need a job. At the time of writing my 23rd article Ja Kel Daily Dot Com is generating .30 cents of income per day.  Ok, so take that amount and times it by the number of days in this month and I may make $8 to 10 dollars for the month. So tell me exactly how are you going to survive on this while you are waiting for web traffic to pick up to your site and especially if you are married and have kids. The investor idea go ahead invest but if you do not have money then how in world will you invest. I invest but it is for saving money for long term goals not something that I am relying on for money generating capital to live on monthly or even daily for that matter.

2. Experience
It is very important to gain experience in the job market. The experience you gain by working is invaluable it is something that you can use in life for ever no matter what your chosen profession is entrepreneur or working for a company. Some may say that you just sit around at any given job and I say if that is what you are doing then you will just sit around no matter if you are working for someone or self employed. Maybe you are in a position that is limited or may become obsolete one day.  Then you can do something about it update and educate yourself weekly on different ways of doing things in your chosen field. Just because you chose to stay with a given profession does not mean you have to stop learning and updating with the times.

3. Freedom
So you may be thinking that a job takes away from your freedom. Maybe you think if you were self employed you just sit around and do nothing. Most people I know that are self employed work twice as long and hard as employed people. Yes there is definitely a benefit to be self employed if you make it and make it big, the money you earn. In order to achieve either income you chose will take your freedom from you because earning money does not come for free unless of course you are a Silver Spoon family member.

4. Social Contacts
Contacts are important and a job is an excellent place to start your book of contacts. We have all heard it, is not what you know but who you know. I was use my life example; I work as a computer network administrator for the government and I have made many contacts from all over the world that I have added to my contact list.  Of course I still have my dream of making it big with an entrepreneur idea and my dream of this blog site becoming really big. The reason I call it a dream because it is just impossible for me to say that living off the income of a blog is a reality and for those that say that it is are just truly misleading because a money generating site like they talk about usually takes many years to establish and you need income while doing it.

Ok so say for example you are a computer entrepreneur is there anything wrong with working in a related job field and building up your contacts in that industry for when you do have a money making idea that you can use your contacts for promoting it? There is nothing wrong with it and no one should ever say that you are stupid because it is an excellent idea for which many have chosen and have become extremely successful using this traditional workforce path.

5. The Boss
Some morons say that to have a job is stupid for the fact you have a boss. What idiots they are because when you are self employed you have a boss also, it’s called the customer. The customer will not just yell at you or make you work late. The can put you out of business if they do not like your service or products. Then where will you be homeless and starving. Bosses are not actually that bad at all find out the ins and outs about them and make it work in your advantaged. Do not take me wrong here I am not saying do not try to make it on your own I am just merely stating that most people need a job in order to get started on the entrepreneur path and people out there stating that we are dumb for working are idiots for saying it.

When I order my new XPS M1210 I was a little skeptical about the small screen since every other laptop I’ve owned has been 15inch and greater.  I must admit though the 12.1 Widescreen WXGA (1280 x 800) display with TrueLifeTM is excellent in every way that I could imagine.  Now when I use a machine without TrueLife screen it seems very out dated to me on top of the fact that my other machines are running XP and my new XPS is using Vista Home Premium.  I was also thinking that with the screen size being smaller that desktop work space would have a sorted crowed feeling to it but to my surprise it is actually great with an absolute superb feel to it.

The thing that caught my eye first about the M1210 upon first taking it out of the box was the 3.0″ width, 12.1-inch screen, 4 lbs in weight notebook defining the role model for an ultra portable notebook. This machine is a very portable professional, media and gaming entertainment machine. 

I do personally love my new M1210 the look with black stylish lid and silver brushed keyboard casing.  The blue effect lighting on the media buttons is cool added feature. The casing is made of a magnesium alloy material and this notebook complies with the Dell Road Ready guidelines.

The lid uses a latch less closing design, when it shuts you can hear it snap shut and spring tension holds the lid in place and closed very well.  All the buttons on the M1210 have a nice feel and an overall expensive feeling.  The touchpad mouse buttons are especially nice in terms of feedback and travel. When you think about the size the M1210 is configured with a 2.16 GHz processor and nVidia graphics veritably and out performs any other laptop in its 12.1-inch class.  To go one step further XPS M1210 can easily outperform a number of 17″ desktop replacement notebooks being sold today.

The Intel® CoreTM 2 Duo Processor T7400 (2.16GHz, 4M L2 Cache, 667MHz FSB) seems to be up to par no complaints with the over all operation of Vista on it.  The overall experience of Vista to me seems to be very similar to the MAC operating system.  The built in web/camera is great added feature for taking pictures and doing video conferences with friends and family.  

I would most definitely recommend this fine machine to anyone considering buying a smaller laptop.  Dell marketing slogan small size attitude and in my opinion it lives up to it in every way. This the best small notebook on the market and you should definitely Buy a DELL Now!

Kissing the secret gateway into a women’s mind and body when done properly, passionately and with a luscious factor you can have her with just a kiss. You can easily communicate how you feel through a kiss to your date or lover.

To be a great kisser you must first know when the time is appropriate to move in for seduction. First you must be able to understand and read her body language that she presents that gives the kiss opportunity. She will start to look at you direct in the eyes in a very deep and sexual manner. The conversations will reduce as she will be hinting that she wants your mouth to meet hers. She may even touch your hand so that you can bring her in close for a kiss. Some of these could happen and when they do the time is right.

Ok now that you determined that the time is right start the kiss slow and sensual. You must be careful not to kiss too fast or she may think you are trying to bypass kissing all together and move right into taking her clothes off. While in the moment of this kiss do not try any special techniques keep focused in the moment and let the feeling of emotions start to overcome your body. In order to portray these emotions in the kiss you must truly start to feel lost within the kiss in a state of relaxation. Maintain these emotions in order to keep the kiss sensual.

The kiss in detail, begin by slowly moving in towards her as if you are going to kiss her, but then pull back slightly and look into her eyes. A feeling of being intrigue should start to enter her mind and this is when you start to move towards her and lightly touch your lips to her neck. Then directly after you make eye contact again for briefly and then close your eyes and move in for the unforgettable luscious kiss.

Now at the lips focus and be consistent with soft, brief sensual kisses and slowly start to move into deeper, longer kisses, and then back to soft kisses. Ok, varied from soft to deep kisses now start to suck her lower lip then upper lip switching between the two a few times. Slowly move to her neck and lightly start to kiss and bite while breathing just enough for her to hear and feel the heat from your mouth. Start to work your way up her neck until you reach her earlobe and lightly began to nibble and breathe into her ear.

It is at this point you have reached unforgettable and now have her but do not take it any further than this kiss. You have clearly expressed your feelings in an unforgettable way and when you leave she will be intrigued and in a state of sexual thoughts about you until the next contact.

She will definitely want to see you again!

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For those of you that have not noticed a new version of Wordpress has been released effective since 22 Jan 2007.  We have just gotten around to upgrading our 2.0 version today.  They give detailed instructions on how to upgrade your current version really easy to follow if you can read.  Anyway installation went ok and I even for got to deactivate my 16 plugins but to my surprise it did not affect the upgrade at all.  However I was very wary during my 15 minute wait for the files to update via ftp. 

We’ve got a new bugfix and security release for both of our actively maintained branches of WordPress. Version 2.1.1 includes about 30 bug fixes, mostly minor things around encoding, XML-RPC, the object cache, and HTML code. It’s available for immediate download on our download page.

FYI do not forget to backup everything just in case I may have forgotten to deactivate plugins but I did not forget to backup my entire site before upgrading.

Yes I am guilty as charge I am a dot com wannabe but I am only a half breed if that.  I am unsure as to how accurate or if the info is true or not from source John Chow’s article requirements to be a dot mogul. Anyway if you do not meet those requirements maybe you will meet the requirements of a dot com mogul half breed and one day you may live up to John’s standards with some constant hard work.

• Your income is made from the Internet: Yes I have income from the internet thousands and thousands of cents coming every month.
• The minimum Internet income level is $10,000 per month (you can not add income from other sources to hit this $10K level).  Ok I kind of meet this requirement I make an average of 10,000 cents per month with no other sources to hit my level and there are months that I even exceed this level.
• You have no jobs outside of the Internet. Well unfortunately my 10,000 per month income is just not enough to afford my famous lifestyle my family requires.
• You have a personal blog with your name as the domain name.  I am over qualified for this one since I have a blog that represents my name and wife’s at the same time and another address jakelneuman.com that is forwarded to jakeldaily.com.
• Your blog must be updated at least once per week.  Yes I meet this with no strings attached I updated five to six times a week.
• A Google search of your name must be at the #1 spot.  Google search Ja Kel the number one, and two spot for jakeldaily.com and number three spot for jakelneuman.com, I am getting closer to full breed mogul. 
• You must be willing to help dot com mogul wannabes.  I more than willing to help anyone that is in need of my attention but without the wannabes needing my help I just standing by at the moment.

So if you meet or come close to the seven requirements, then you to can call yourself a Dot Com mogul half breed. If you don’t meet or come close then do not even think about it, and you should just give up now.

Starting a new website has to be one of the hardest things that I can think of that you can attempt to do.  After you have the site completed and you think that all the bugs are worked out there are most times always extra things that have to be done.  Such as with a wordpress blog, I just started this blog 10 February 2007 and I have been installing plugins almost everyday it seems.  Ok, so you think you are out of update hell and you are ready to show the world your website but wait a minute there are 11.5 billion other websites on the net.  Now being faced with that it is time to give up right, no this is where the hard work comes in, listed below are some methods that you can use for free and pay for to help promote your new website. 

Content
Most important aspect of your page, original content that people want to read and then tell others about the article. This is something that I have point blank been ignoring for the most part with our Ja Kel celebrity / fashion blog that we have been running since February 2006.  The content we have on our other blog is short and then a lot of filler from the celebrity or fashion articles we have found.  This in turn is ignoring the most important part of having a blog, because that info can be found on millions of celebrity / fashion blogs.  This brings me to the point of why I decided to start this personal blog about anything I want to write about, including things from my family which can not be found anywhere else.  Doing this in most cases you hope to form a reader bond causing people to want to come back to your site.

Link exchange
The easiest way to promote your website is link exchange although it does bring a ton of traffic your way it does how ever get you rated high on sites such as technorati.  This is relatively easy you can just email sites that have something income with your site content and hope that they will exchange with you.  

Forum Profiles
Many online forums allow you to have a signature within your profile in which that you can include a link to your site.  This will also not create a lot of traffic, but every thing you do is one more step towards being more successful with you website, persistence pays off eventually if done correctly. 
 
Newsletter
Creating a great newsletter is another great way to get traffic to your site.  On the other though you do need people to sign up for this and if you are running a blog there is RSS feeds which will work as your newsletter unless maybe you wanted to do a monthly one or something.

Banner Advertising
Banner advertising can be purchased on a CTR, CPM or Flat rate and in my opinion is an effective advertising method.  I have never purchased banner advertising, well actually I have only purchased one advertisement and that was on the million dollar page, right hand bottom corner of it.  Yeah I know maybe you are thinking why? I just got caught up in the hype of things and oh well it’s on there for five years.  Back to subject, banner advertising is no were near as effective as text advertisement within a post according to my stats on my other website.

Text Link Advertising
This type of advertising is definitely becoming extremely popular and more companies such as Text-Link Ads are appearing on the net selling links for websites and charging a hefty price in my opinion, fifty percent in most cases.

In Text Advertising
I’m sure you have witnessed this type of advertisement if you are feeling a little unsure at the moment remember back to being on a site and seeing a word underlined twice in most cases and a popup window appears when you move the cursor over it.  I would love to have this advertisement on my site but unfortunately most companies such as Vibrant Media and Kontera require a minimum of 500,000 page views a month and I do not have that yet.  It is an excellent way of adding to your blog revenue and I am for it one hundred percent.

Buy Forum Posts
Yes you can actually pay a company to post to your new forum.  Have you ever wondered how forums get started since no one wants to go there if there is no content to look at and so you are stuck with an empty forum?  It is funny that most people are followers and only want to do something if other people are already doing it or in this case no content to look at and read.  Well you can pay companies to post relative info to your forum and therefore populating your forum.  I have not actually used this method for our forum Ja Kel Fourm at the moment I am do it the hard way waiting for people to join, and it’s a very long wait.

This is an area of my life that has taken some time to reach the level that I am at today. It wasn’t until I meet my wife and after many discussions and thought did I reach the decision to become a father. The love you have for another person is the ultimate reason why you should want to reproduce life together. This rationalization made me understand why and was the deciding point for me to take the first step into fatherhood.

I think everyone would agree that parenting is extremely hard at times but the rewards are always so much more worthwhile. The decision to become a parent should never be taken lightly or consider if you are a little unsure that you are ready for it. To be a parent is something that can not be compared to anything else that you will ever experience in life. The measurement of time seems almost in relation to the blink of an eye when seeing your kids grow up. You remember when they came into this world and then before you know it they are twice the size and still growing at a rapid pace.

At the time of writing this article my wife and I have two kids, a 4 year old daughter March 19 and a son who will is 8 months old this month. I could not ask for a better family in my eyes our family is the absolute best in the world. I work for the US Government and have a remaining two years left on my contract in Belgium. My wife stays at home by choice to raise our children and has plans to start her real estate career when we move to the states at the end of my contract. To be able to have one parent able to stay at home and raise the children is a luxury and also gives you peace of mind not having to worry about the care they are receiving.

Our daughter is very intelligent for her age and always asks for the explanation as to why, to see if she is in agreement with you. Most times she will be in agreement with you when she has distinguish the truth of what you are telling her because if she thinks you are not telling the truth she will definitely tell you. At school it is an easy observation to see just how advanced she is compared to other kids in her class. I know you may be thinking but you are the father and of course you will say that about your daughter but this is not the case. She looks like and takes after her mum very head strong, determined that she is right in almost any situation that occurs.

Our son very new to the world just turned 8 months old and said his first words dad dad. My wife tells me every day how much we look alike and that the only thing he got from her was eye color. He has already doubled in size since birth and at times I do not notice how fast he is growing until you see a picture of him or when my wife is getting rid of the smaller clothes he used to wear. At the present he definitely loves his milk, biscuits, bathing, watching his sister and running around the house in his walker. A very happy baby always laughing, smiling, talking and almost never crying accept when you have a slow response time on getting his milk and of course he never thinks it enough after you’ve feed him.

I would like to think that every parent out there share great moments with there child or children that they treasure forever. For me I would have to say that I love it when they smile at me and I get that feeling in my heart, of being loved and appreciated very much. This is something that in my opinion nothing else can possibly compare to and it is something that only a parent can experience. There is so much to learn from being a parent it is not just an act of raising your children. Every day is a new learning experience that you are apart of with your children and sometimes it may seem that your kids are getting the better of you but you have to remember that both the parent and child are basically in a learning process of getting to know what is right and wrong.

Almost always you hear parents stating that I will do this better than my parents have, well this is a definite if you come from a rusty spoon back ground such as I have. I know that our children are on a complete different path than I had to take and that my wife and I are raising our kids to the best standards that are possible. For starters our children will have a cultured background since my wife is from England and we are already living in another country and we will continue to travel regardless of where we live in the world. I know that both of our children have high potential and my wife and I will always continue to influence (not force) our kids in any right direction they choose to take. Parenting sometimes does not have a clear path but through patience and always striving to do your best you find that at the end it will always prove to be worthwhile!

Getting a vasectomy and the reasons why you should have the operation. My wife and I both agree that we only wanted two children preferably a boy and girl and that is what we ending up having; Layla & Tate. So we were then confronted with the decision on permanent birth control.

I think all women will agree that men should step up and get the vasectomy considering the fact they are the one’s giving birth and us men are only standing by there sides. I like all men in the back of my mind thinking I do not want any knifes going near the region of my testicles, I really was not impressed with the vasectomy idea. Of course I knew it was my place to step up and be a man also.

The day of my operation I arrived at the hospital at 8:00 am and started the paper work, signed a document stating that the surgery should be consider irreversible with a 0.5 percent failure rate. Then they showed me to my room where I had been waiting for approximately two hours and another patient showed up in the bed beside mine. Something I have forgotten to add is that I am in Belgium a French / Flemish speaking country. So anyway the man was wheeled out in his bed and returns 3 hours later and had an IV and a tube in his mouth with blood going through it. Then they tell me to get my gown on, well point to it anyway and I was unable to ask the other man what he had done. So off I went in my bed thinking the worst about this vasectomy.

Arrival at the doctor’s operating room and doctors asks are you ok (he speaks a little english), I say slightly nervous and he says everyone is. The nurse starts to prep me at approximately 1:00 p.m.; sterilizer, four blue papers around my groin then the doctor states he will now inject the local anesthetic. I started squeezing my fists tightly thinking the worst possible pain and the he done it, comparable to the same feeling you get at the dental office when they inject the anesthetic. Ok the cutting begins feeling nothing and can not see anything because of the blue papers but I do however see smoke coming from my groin still no pain just the feeling of movement down there. Then the doctor says that side is good and will inject the other side and do the same, the other side I only felt a more pulling sensation no pain. Ok so surgery complete in 50 minutes the doctor gives the brief about not playing sports for 3 weeks and prescribed two meds a antibiotic and pain killer and said I had to return for the follow up in 10 days then the nurses wheeled me back to my room. I was released within 30 minutes from the hospital and I was on my way home at 2:35 p.m.

Day one only a little sore nothing major (less soreness compared to a tooth extraction) and no problem urinating. Day two decided to have sex was thinking I would have pain when ejaculating but no pain at all just sore where the incisions were made, note take is easy during the sex if you do decided to go for it because of the stitches. Oh also wanted to note that when I looked at the incisions they looked around a quarter of inch in length and they did bleed a little not much however. Anyway the rest of the week the soreness just gradually faded away.

At my follow up everything was A ok and then he gave me an appointment for lab work which is scheduled 2 months after surgery to check the sperm and make sure there is 0 level left. So I think you know what has to happen at that appointment, so I will be taking my wife along hopefully it’s allowed.

Follow up lab work: guess what you do not have to do you no what at the doctor’s office you do it at home and then bring it with in two hours. Test back two weeks later and I am sterile and happy with my two kids.

My first go at getting related posts I used Mr. Wasabi’s plugin and I did not have any success in making it work. Today I did another search and came up with Erwin Kodiat related post plugin that allows you to select related posts manually with a nice popup gui which I prefer more over the none working one. After you install it into the plugins folder you just activate it and the related post link appears in the right hand corner on published posts not new unpublished posts.

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I’ve been a fan of John Chow dot Com and love the way he writes about technology and takes pictures of his food. So when I noticed John was giving a free link back for a review of his site, I saw this as a great opportunity for the start of Ja Kel Daily Dot Com.

To be honest I am not even sure how I found John’s site but I began reading it around November 2006.  At the time I was already blogging and my success rate has never even come close to John’s.  So I started thinking why not start an addition to our blog and follow John’s example; Hosting, Wordpress, Same layout Misty 3.0, Adsense placement, and get personal to try and achieve reader loyalty.  John, I hope you do not mind that I used the same template but I wanted to use a proven layout and seems that since that template had already beed downloaded over thirty thousand times I was not the first one anyway.

So far John since the start of Ja Kel Daily Dot Com on 10 February 2007 we already have 11 RSS readers and Alexa rating of 503,118.  Thank you, John Chow for setting an example that I can follow and continue to grow in blog success.

Yesterday my family and I went to Le Waux Hall Park in Belgium.  This is a really nice park with two ponds, playground, and many trails.  It had been two years since that last time we had visited this park and to my surprise there were two black swans this time.  A first time for me I actually did not know black swans existed until yesterday but Kelly on the other hand had seen black swans before.  There are seven species of swans in the world, all pure white except for the Australian black swan and the South American black-necked swan.

The first European to see a black swan is believed to be the Dutch sailor Antonie Caen who described the species during his visit to the Shark Bay area in 1636. Later, the Dutch explorer Willem de Vlamingh captured several birds on the Swan River, Western Australia in 1697, but many people in Europe did not believe him, as at that time it was believed that all swans were white. Three of the captured birds were taken to Batavia, where they lived for some time. However, the species wasn’t reported again until the arrival of the ‘First Fleet’ in 1788. The black swan was first described scientifically by Dr. John Latham in 1790.

The black swan was introduced as a game bird from Australia to New Zealand in the 1860s but also probably reached here naturally at about the same time as the population grew and spread very rapidly.  The Heather and Robertson field guide says that “by the 1960s, there were well over 100,000 birds in New Zealand with 70,000 on Lake Ellesmere alone.  The main concentrations of the birds are now to be found on coastal lakes and lagoons around the South Island and in the Wairarapa, Hawkes Bay in the North Island, as well as inland lakes in the Waikato and Rotorua. The black swan is the state bird of Western Australia.

The same day I did what was expected and I googled black swans and now I am properly educated on this subject.  I assuming they are more abundant in England and not so many Stateside if any since Kelly had seen them before and I had not. I have three additional pics that I took that I can make avaialable just comment the pics are size: 3072 x 2304.

Also wanted to note that on this very same day my eight month old son Tate said his first word which was Dad Dad and he loves to repeat it alot. A proud moment in life makes you feel really happy. 

Setting successful goals and staying on path are very important. My family’s long term goal of paying for a house with a 10 year mortgage, is what I call a forced savings method. By using my 10 steps of successful goal achievement I will demonstrate how my family are using them and have successfully continued to stay on path to achieving our set goal.

10 Steps

• 1. Start by writing them down it is as easy as that. Think about what you want to achieve either long term or short term. Writing down your goals is a tested and proven method of effectively declaring your intentions and working towards them.
• 2. Think about what it is you want to achieve and be specific on the areas you want to make improvements in.
• 3. It is important to set time limits for both short term and long term. I suggest 0-2 year short term and 2-5 long term time limits.
• 4. When you have you goals set and written down start thinking how these goals will benefit you and write it down. Use these benefits as a motivation tool to help keep you focused on the goal at hand.
• 5. Consider all possible paths that can be taken to achieve your goals. Evaluate these paths and calculate all possible consequences that may occur and cause possible obstacles.
• 6. Take the above five steps and start to prepare and form your plan of attack.
• 7. Categorize your resources you have and make a list of all additional support needed.
• 8. Check your life balance this will help you in the process of adding needed balance to your life. 
• 9. Do not just sit there start now by taking action on those thoughts going threw your head. If you do not then you will remain in a state of never achieving anything you have a desire to do!
• 10. Review your plan and if possible have a close friend have a look at it also, a second opinion. Remember if you do go for the second opinion most times if you have a high goal set people will be negative. Be prepared for criticism when trying to break away from the norm of regular day to day life. Stays focused and make a habit of regularly checking your progress on your set goal.

My Family Goal

• 1. Find Investment property and pay for it in 10 years and then sell after property is paid in full (long term goal).
• 2. Use profit made from the sell of property to invest into more properties.
• 3. Time limit 10 years stated by mortgage paper work.
• 4. Will improve my family with better financial means.
• 5. Path to be taken live in the house for 3.5 years and renting it for 6.5 years, renter market already established.
• 6. Established plan pay mortgage payments and continue to update house to highest standard of living this will increase property value.
• 7. Resources: use government overseas paycheck allowance that would have been allotted to rent if we did not use it for the mortgage. Either add allowance to your assets or you give it away to the landlord. Other resources include my home improvement knowledge and access to my father in-laws’ home improvements knowledge.
• 8. Continue to add balance to your life, posting a article later.
• 9. Action taken and method is in place and now watching our assets grow.
• 10. Communication is a must with all goals and including our goal. My wife and I are always talking about how we can better our family. At the time of writing this the heating contractors are installing the central heat in our house and will be finished Friday and just two months ago we finished our loft conversion adding another room increasing the value by $30,000 according to our real estate broker estimate. It is definitely an essential and most important step to review and discuss your plan to insure goal achievement success.

My personal opinion that your hard earned cashed is better off in savings as opposed to speeding it on eBooks. If you are willing to dedicate some of your time you can actually find all the information for free yourself by using Google’s search engine to search and find related topics that they talk about in those pointless eBooks.

There are many eBooks out there that will try to entice you in by great PR marketing and really nice comments about their products on many different websites. You have to be realistic how hard is it really to go and hype up your product up in forums and get top websites to mention your eBook and of course word of mouth advertisement and affiliate programs.

I have never purchased or written an eBook and never will because there is to much free information on the web. I will not be recommending or even mentioning an eBook author in this post because that is just more free advertisement for something I do not believe is worth spending the money on. I will however address one of the single most important aspects of successful website creation for free but if you want you are welcome to go purchase the information from an eBook author since I am not a so called accredited author of making millions.

• 1. Ok first step linking and link exchange in the perfect internet world we all wish that everyone would start linking to us just because maybe we might be a nice person. Unfortunately it does not work this way and never will but you need these websites to start linking to you. Start by building content that is unique to your site and then start your search for others that are in the same category of information. After you compile your list of emails to top trafficed sites then email them individually asking for the link exchange do not make a mass email because it is consider Spam and will be rejected in most cases. Now you are on your way to advancing your popularity on the web and search engines such as Google.
• 2. Second step start using pings, tags,feeds, trackbacks and comments. The service I use for pings is called feed burner because each time I write my article it lets several hundred sites know that I have updated my blog site. A trackback enables other sites that link to one of your posts quoting the content to be linked back your site and at the same time increases your sites popularity. Tags are the keys words on your site that you use to give its description of relevance and they represent your sites categorical content. Bottom line they are used to catalog your site within search engine databases so that when people search for those particular words your site will be listed in the search engine return. Do not think though just because you place these words in that when you search your site will automatically come up because remember these search engines work of the popularity factor, so basically most popular first and so forth. Comments show that other people are interested in what you have to say and a excellent way of communicating with your audience.
• 3. Just briefly, I can not stress enough how important original content is, it is a must. The only thing that separates you from the rest of the billions of websites out there. If you are not original then do not bother or basically be prepared for it to take for ever to get recognized by search engines and established the customer base you need to keep generating traffic.

High Traffic Blogs Take Discipline
I will make this short and to the point. If you want to build a blog that generates high traffic then it will take dedication and a set goal that you are willing to plan and achieve “No Quitters”. I can not stress this enough do not even consider starting a blog unless you are willing to work hard and then work even harder. For those out there stating that blogs are an easy way to generate profit are wrong and you must be naïve for even taking a second of your time thinking this a an easy form of cash flow. It is a long term goal that takes an enormous amount of time and effort. I speak from experience we’ve spent so many hours learning tricks, code and other related blog secrets and I know there are days that you think why in the hell I’m I doing this for $4.00 a month. Well if this is your way of thinking it should not be because if you are blogging for money only then more than likely you will never become successfully financially.  You have to have a passion to write and blog you can not only have a financial motivate behind your website.

Blog layout is very important if you have a messy or hard to browse blog then you are losing people because if they find your site unprofessional looking the public never gives your content a chance. Search the net and find other websites that have successful website layouts because when doing this you have taken out the guess element of knowing if the layout it good or not.

Lastly subscribe to as many blog related websites that allow you to upload your blog address and get started trading links with other related blog sites that are interested in trading. Eventually you will have sites adding your link with out even emailing a request to trade, just doing it because they like your site.